Violence Against Women Has to be Stopped!!!



She was a student
She was 23
Her fault some people say because she boarded the wrong bus
And oh yeah
SHE WAS A GIRL
... Six men raped her one by one and then used an iron rod to tear her vagina
Small intestine and large intestine came out
They left her to die on the road
Naked
Wounded
Exposed
Devastated
What’s more is that no one even turned to look at her
No one even bothered to throw a shawl on the ill-clad
ill-fated girl
She can never live a normal married life again
She Went into coma five times since 16th December
She was unconscious
Critical and hasn't been able to stop crying
But don’t worry
She wasn't your sister
She wasn't your daughter
But she could be. The brutality has to stop right here guys
These people deserve capital punishment for their heinous
Perverted act
She DIED on Saturday 28th
December 2012
Rest in Peace♥ and we pray that her killers get the WORST punishment possible
This doesn't only happen in India..
But in every country around the world..
Is this how we treat our women?

~ Quoted from One People, One Nation, One Singapore on Facebook

 

I can never understand why the six men could be so brutal that they would do such wicked things to a defenceless young woman. It was already bad enough that they gang-raped her. Why didn't they stop at that? Why did they go further by using an iron rod to tear her vagina and throwing her out of the bus? Why didn't anyone on the bus intervene? Why didn't any passers-by go to her aid? I can't imagine myself being a witness of such acts of brutality and not doing anything to help the victim.

 

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Violence Against Women



I can't believe what I just read in this link:  http://sg.news.yahoo.com/indian-teen-kills-self-pressed-drop-rape-case-173514095.html. Almost 90% of violent crimes committed in India last year were against women! This is so sick!!!!

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Foreign Workers in Singapore



Foreigh workers may not necessarily be cheaper to employ if we factor in their level of productivity and so forth. A foreign worker colleague of mine is a case in point. She is not only very lazy and irresponsible, she has also apparently taken more days of leave than what she is  entitled to. Yet my big boss gave her 4x increments quite recently! She is definitely a 'financial drain' in my workplace. I won't be surprised if there are many foreign workers like her.

Here's an article pertaining to foreign workers: http://sg.news.yahoo.com/s’pore-must-end-over-reliance-on-foreign-workers-‘sooner-or-later’--aware-director-054907932.html

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我的灵啊，新的一年即将到来，你千万不可以再被动摇。你不可以、千万不可以再给他机会，因为给他机会就等于给他机会再伤害你。他是个窝囊废、懦夫，又不愿意替你出头、不愿意保护你。他宁可让别人践踏你、宁可让你被羞辱、宁可替你的敌人出头、宁可得罪你也不愿意得罪你的敌人、宁可包庇你的敌人也不愿意保护你。他是个自私自利的男人。像这样烂到透顶的男人，你千万不可以要。记得，你一定要记得。我的灵啊，你值得拥有一个全心全意对你的男人、一个百分之百值得你付出的男人。

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现今社会已变得越来越腐败，人也变得越来越自私。真令人感到心寒。:(

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My Thoughts

I just read  an article in this link:  http://sg.news.yahoo.com/indian-gang-rape-student-fighting-her-life-060048532.html. It's so shocking that men could be so sick and evil. Why didn't other passengers on the bus intervene? Why didn't the bus driver do something about it? Were they so devoid of conscience that they chose not to do anything about it? How could anyone turn a blind eye to the plight of the girl? Sigh...

 

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2012 就快告一个段落了。。。今年遇到不如意的事相当多。。。最令我痛心的是被以为是朋友的人背叛。。。虽然遇到不顺心的事很多，但至少有所收获。。。而且今年我学会了为自己出头。。。在某一方面也有了突破。。。为此感恩。:) 希望明年会比今年好。:) 也希望明年的圣诞节之前找到一位值得我付出的男朋友。:)

 

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My Thoughts

A true follower of any religion will never bully or take advantage of another person. Likewise, he (she) will never initiate sins against a fellow human being.  I despise those who call themselves Christians but yet are so 'unchristian' in the way they treat fellow Christians and people of other faiths.  Even though I am far from being godly, but at least I will never bully or take advantage of another person. Neither will I initiate sins against another person. 

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就算我再怎么讨厌、再怎么恨一个人，我也不至于会故意说一些缺乏真实的话。反之，我会以相当客观的角度去评价他（她）。毕竟我是有良心的。不知道为什么就是有人会以小人之心度君子之腹。

 



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Dogs Saying Grace?

Check out this link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fgNV2cbo6w0&feature=youtube_gdata_player (Video by countryboys1992)


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昨晚我在朋友家过夜，得独自一人睡在黑暗的房间。原本以为我会害怕（毕竟已经习惯开着灯睡觉），但却在黑暗中睡着了。经过一个晚上，对自己有了深一层的认识 -- 原来我并不是那么胆小的。：）

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我真搞不懂为什么一个有一定年龄的中年男人会苯到竟然拿我痛恨的两个敌人来刺激我，想要让我吃醋。为什么苯到不知道会有反效果？天啊，这世界上怎么会有这么笨到不能再笨的男人啊？

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Food for Thought

There comes a time in life when you walk away from all the drama and people who create it. Surround yourself with people who make you laugh, forget the bad and focus on the good. Love the people who treat you right...Falling down is part of life, getting back up is living.

~ Lessons Learned In Life



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Alzheimer's Disease



...the Alzheimer's pathology may have less effect on a brain which is stimulated and hence better connected by a rich social network. It's not that having friends and family around cured the Alzheimer's Disease - certainly not - but they allow people to function better mentally in spite of the changes in the brain.

~ Ian Robertson (Author of The Winner Effect)

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友情

交到损友会带坏一个人，使原本心地善良的人变得邪恶。



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Vietnam Trip - At the Fairy Stream 4

 

 



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Vietnam Trip - At the Fairy Stream 3

 

 



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Vietnam Trip - At the Fairy Stream 2

 

 



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Vietnam Trip - At the White Sand Dunes 2

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Vietnam Trip - Saigon Opera House

 







Saigon Opera House

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Vietnam Trip - At the Fairy Stream 1



At the Fairy Stream

 

 

 

 

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Vietnam Trip - Twin Bedroom at Nha Nghi Guest House

Twin bedroom at Nha Nghi Guest House in Mui Ne

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Vietnam Trip - Nha Nghi Guest House

 

Outside Nha Nghi Guest House





Inside the guest house facing the beach

Inside the guest house

Outside my room at the guest house

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Vietnam Trip - Local Fishing Boats

Local fishing boats



Close-up view

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