在过去的六个半月，让我认清了身边一些朋友的真面目。原来对一些所谓的朋友而言，为了个人利益或其他理由，朋友是可以出卖的。或许对他们来说，朋友并不是交心的对象，而友情也只不过是一种交易罢了。这些所谓的朋友让我觉得非常的心寒。

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有些关系是无法修补的 (有些人是完全不值得被原谅的)，因为其中一方对另一方所造成的伤害实在是太多次了，也实在是太深了，尤其是当一方还继续伤害着另一方。如果没有身在其中是无法理解的。

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When people enter or re-enter your life with ulterior motives...心寒。。。真的。。。

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I can never trust people who are sneaky, especially men. I would rather choose someone who has nothing to hide than someone who is sneaky, 因为一个心里没有鬼的男人才能让我放心。。。

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没开始之前或一开始就有所隐瞒或不够坦承的关系是注定不能走到最后的，所以与其给对方机会，倒不如不给机会。。。

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My Thoughts

It's sad when your own siblings take advantage of you and your good nature. When you don't question their intentions but have instead chosen to trust them implicitly, and you end up being betrayed, how does that make you feel? It's certainly not a good feeling. But then when you think about it objectively, the person who ought to be ultimately blamed is actually the head of the household. In fact, all forms of dysfunction in a family are due to the failure(s) of the head. It's sad but it's true...

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Maybe I shouldn't consider any of those guys who've been sending PIs to check on me, because they've already found out so much about me whereas I know next to nothing about them or not much about them. 

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Food for Thought

Sometimes it's necessary to shut certain people out of your life to protect your sanity.

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Food for Thought

如果你真正喜欢一个人，你会很原意为对方付出。And if you are in a position to help but yet not willing to do so, then you really need to ask yourself: 我是真心喜欢对方吗? 或只是想占有对方罢了? 

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好几个月前开始发现除了我的大老板所派的私家侦探之外，似乎还有其他人也派了私家侦探跟踪我。。。其中一个很过分。。。他似乎指示他所派的私家侦探要明目张胆出现在我面前！！ 这些男人真的太过分了，竟然一直侵犯我的隐私！！！ 害我要约家人或朋友出去，（很多时候）都不敢。。。毕竟有些话题只适合跟某些人讲。。。（而且我比较喜欢面对面讲。。。通过电话就是似乎少了什么的）虽然我很享受独处，也很重视独处，但是人毕竟不是‘孤屿’啊。。。如果派私家侦探跟踪我的人只是想多了解我，我勉强可以接受 （当然最好是不要啦！）。。。但是我无法接受我大老板派私家侦探跟踪我，因为他是站在我敌人那一边的！！！

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I really can't stand the sight of the PIs who are sent to check on me in the middle of the night!!! Can you imagine having one man or two men looking up at you through a window in the middle of the night???!!! It can be very eerie, you know?! This is especially so during the Hungry Ghost month! During the recent Hungry Ghost month, the PIs were also sent to check on me in the middle of the night!!! Can you imagine the eerie feeling?! Aiyo!!!! I know I can avoid seeing them by having the window closed, but my brother has the habit of opening it (wide at times!). And since some months ago, I started having the tendency to sleep at about 10 plus at night and waking up in the middle of the night (是自然醒的。。。因为我只需要大约4个小时的睡眠时间。。。) to do my 'business'.  可怜的我!!! I live on the 2nd floor!!! Whoever that has sent the PIs to check on me in the middle of the night must be really sick!!! (But thankfully, I don't have to face the 'torture' every night.)





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我的看法

 

一个不敢面对问题, 反而选择逃避的男人不适合做终生伴侣。

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I can't stand people who are deceptive and who, at the same time, think that I lack the intelligence to recognise their deception!

 

 

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My Thoughts 我的想法

Sometimes when it's too late to do damage control, it'll not help at all no matter how hard you try. 所以做人千万不要做得太过分，因为等你需要别人宽恕你、包容你的时候，别人未必愿意。

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Food for Thought

Bad company corrupts good character.

~ 1 Corinthians 15:33 (NIV)

 

I agree absolutely. That's why I'd rather shun certain people at work and be labelled as anti-social, than to be close to them and allow them to be a bad influence in my life.

 

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Some people simply enjoy bullying others and yet are thick-skinned enough to pretend to be fair in front of their bosses. They are such despicable hypocrites! They are probably thinking that they will continue to be spared from judgment/punishment just because they have been spared all these years. There is a season for everything and their season for judgment/punishment is probably near at hand.

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Food for Thought

If you really believe in your God (whoever your God may be), then there's no need for you to play politics at work.

 

 

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Extramarital Affairs

The place I work at seems to be a breeding ground for extramarital affairs. The women seem so ready to seduce the men and the men seem so happy to be at the receiving end of seduction. Don't they know there are serious consequences? Don't they know that there's a heavy price to pay? Don't they know that their children and/or their children's children will have to bear the consequences of their sins? I'm against extramarital affairs!!!

 



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人为什么要勾心斗角？为什么不能和平相处？如果能处身在一个与世无争的世界，犹如人间天堂般, 那有多好。。。

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My Thoughts

Men generally are such scary creatures! They could be having flings or one-night stands with men and/or women although they are either married or attached. Some (or maybe many) could be legally married in another country rather than in their country of origin and so it might not be possible to really know for sure if they are married. Many of them (I believe) could be having flings or one-night stands overseas and many (I believe) have mistresses overseas. That is at least true in the case of Singaporean men. It's so scary, isn't it?! Why can't men just be contented with having a wife or a girlfriend? Is it because of their ego? Or is it because they are wired that way? Don't they have any conscience at all???!!!

 



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