我的看法

一个人是否好、是否坏，并不是决定于别人怎么评论他，也并不是决定于大多数人怎么评论他。想知道一个人的好坏，就要靠智慧。

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Food for Thought

We do not see the world as it is, we see the world as we are.
 ~ The Talmud (Quoted by Dr Menis Yousry in his book, Discover Your Hidden Memory & Find the Real You)



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Servant Leadership (Part 1)

Right now, I am reading a new book entitled "The Servant Leader" by James A. Autry. A key principle which he advocates is that we have to have congruity in our lives.

There is a foreword by Howard Behar, who is a former President of Starbucks Coffee International. He says, "You can't separate the way you behave when you're communicating with your spouse from the way you communicate with your co-workers or boss. It's important to be the same person all day, every day." I absolutely agree with him!

It's a sad reality that many people don't have congruity in their lives. In other words, they simply lack authencity. They are somehow so skilled in compartmentalising their lives that it's easy for them to behave one way when they are at home and behave another way when they are at work or with friends, etc. So, what others see is just a fragmented view of them.

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