有些关系是无法修补的 (有些人是完全不值得被原谅的)，因为其中一方对另一方所造成的伤害实在是太多次了，也实在是太深了，尤其是当一方还继续伤害着另一方。如果没有身在其中是无法理解的。

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没开始之前或一开始就有所隐瞒或不够坦承的关系是注定不能走到最后的，所以与其给对方机会，倒不如不给机会。。。

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As this year is coming to an end soon, it's time to make resolutions for 2015. In 2015, I hope I'll make it a habit to openly appreciate people who are genuinely kind to me, people who don't initiate sins against me and people who don't gang up with others against me.

Today, I told three people that I appreciated them for being kind to me in one way or another. Why? It's because I've encountered too many evil people  - people who have plotted evil against me without me sinning against them and others who have ganged up with these people - at work this year.





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My Thoughts

There are so many troublemakers at my workplace...sigh...:( They seem to enjoy being troublemakers and making life miserable for others. Without these troublemakers, my workplace would be such a peaceful place. :) And without these troublemakers, I'd not have to waste SO MUCH precious time protecting my files, etc, etc. If my big boss would remove existing troublemakers and stop employing troublemakers, I'm sure it'd boost overall productivity and morale at work.

 

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小人实在太可怕了！你不需要去招惹他们，他们也会‘主动’来招惹你、攻击你。。。他们甚至会不择手段去对付你。。。because their hearts are inclined towards evil。。。小人可能会给自己找借口，说什么‘他们只是在玩办公室政治，没什么大不了的。。。别人也在玩啊，不是吗？’之类的借口。。。其实如果他们敢面对真实的自己，他们就会（至少对自己）承认他们的心是邪恶的。。。也许他们会继续做缺德的事，以为不会有报应的。。。或许他们不相信报应这回事。。。但是不相信并不表示它不存在。。。也许报应会降临在他们家人身上。。。又或许报应会降临在他们后代身上。。。宁可信其有，不要宁可信其无。。。这才是明智的抉择。。。

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表面上看起来，别人可能会觉得你很难搞、很难相处，但是一个有智慧的人、一个明眼人就会看得出其实是那些小人难搞、难相处。

 

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Insecurity

You should work on your insecurity issues instead of putting me down (in front of me and behind me time and again) in terms of my looks and the way I dress just because I have more admirers than you.

 

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I will NEVER want a playboy because I love and respect myself, and I certainly deserve a worthy and faithful man.
 

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My Thoughts

A true follower of any religion will never bully or take advantage of another person. Likewise, he (she) will never initiate sins against a fellow human being.  I despise those who call themselves Christians but yet are so 'unchristian' in the way they treat fellow Christians and people of other faiths.  Even though I am far from being godly, but at least I will never bully or take advantage of another person. Neither will I initiate sins against another person. 

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