在过去的六个半月，让我认清了身边一些朋友的真面目。原来对一些所谓的朋友而言，为了个人利益或其他理由，朋友是可以出卖的。或许对他们来说，朋友并不是交心的对象，而友情也只不过是一种交易罢了。这些所谓的朋友让我觉得非常的心寒。

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I can never trust people who are sneaky, especially men. I would rather choose someone who has nothing to hide than someone who is sneaky, 因为一个心里没有鬼的男人才能让我放心。。。

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没开始之前或一开始就有所隐瞒或不够坦承的关系是注定不能走到最后的，所以与其给对方机会，倒不如不给机会。。。

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Maybe I shouldn't consider any of those guys who've been sending PIs to check on me, because they've already found out so much about me whereas I know next to nothing about them or not much about them. 

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Food for Thought

如果你真正喜欢一个人，你会很原意为对方付出。And if you are in a position to help but yet not willing to do so, then you really need to ask yourself: 我是真心喜欢对方吗? 或只是想占有对方罢了? 

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刚刚看了一部台湾电视剧《幸福兑换券》。其中一位女主角在戏里的母亲就跟她说了一句话。。。她大概是说要知道一个男人值不值得你要，就要问你的眼泪和微笑。。。如果一个男人会让你一直哭泣，就算条件再好也不能要。。。如果一个男人会让你经常微笑，就算苦一点也是值得的。。。在我生命里，就刚好有这两种男人：一个是让我一想到他，眼眶就会有泪的男人；另外一个是让我一想到他，眼睛就会微笑的男人:D

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好几个月前开始发现除了我的大老板所派的私家侦探之外，似乎还有其他人也派了私家侦探跟踪我。。。其中一个很过分。。。他似乎指示他所派的私家侦探要明目张胆出现在我面前！！ 这些男人真的太过分了，竟然一直侵犯我的隐私！！！ 害我要约家人或朋友出去，（很多时候）都不敢。。。毕竟有些话题只适合跟某些人讲。。。（而且我比较喜欢面对面讲。。。通过电话就是似乎少了什么的）虽然我很享受独处，也很重视独处，但是人毕竟不是‘孤屿’啊。。。如果派私家侦探跟踪我的人只是想多了解我，我勉强可以接受 （当然最好是不要啦！）。。。但是我无法接受我大老板派私家侦探跟踪我，因为他是站在我敌人那一边的！！！

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I really can't stand the sight of the PIs who are sent to check on me in the middle of the night!!! Can you imagine having one man or two men looking up at you through a window in the middle of the night???!!! It can be very eerie, you know?! This is especially so during the Hungry Ghost month! During the recent Hungry Ghost month, the PIs were also sent to check on me in the middle of the night!!! Can you imagine the eerie feeling?! Aiyo!!!! I know I can avoid seeing them by having the window closed, but my brother has the habit of opening it (wide at times!). And since some months ago, I started having the tendency to sleep at about 10 plus at night and waking up in the middle of the night (是自然醒的。。。因为我只需要大约4个小时的睡眠时间。。。) to do my 'business'.  可怜的我!!! I live on the 2nd floor!!! Whoever that has sent the PIs to check on me in the middle of the night must be really sick!!! (But thankfully, I don't have to face the 'torture' every night.)





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我的看法

 

一个不敢面对问题, 反而选择逃避的男人不适合做终生伴侣。

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My Thoughts 我的想法

Sometimes when it's too late to do damage control, it'll not help at all no matter how hard you try. 所以做人千万不要做得太过分，因为等你需要别人宽恕你、包容你的时候，别人未必愿意。

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Food for Thought

Bad company corrupts good character.

~ 1 Corinthians 15:33 (NIV)

 

I agree absolutely. That's why I'd rather shun certain people at work and be labelled as anti-social, than to be close to them and allow them to be a bad influence in my life.

 

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Food for Thought

If you really believe in your God (whoever your God may be), then there's no need for you to play politics at work.

 

 

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Respect



Respect is not a given; it has to be earned. This should apply to all kinds of relationships, including parent-child relationship, boss-subordinate relationship, etc.

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我的看法

用金钱买回来的爱情、婚姻是不会持久的。。。就是不明白为什么新加坡有很多男人愿意花钱去买越南或中国新娘？？？难道他们不知道钱是买不到幸福的吗？？？

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It's Time...

Sometimes when it's too late, it's really too late. No amount of regrets on your part will make me change my mind. It's time for me to choose someone else - someone worthy of me.

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I met my type of guy today...so charming...hopefully, we will be dating soon.:P
 



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或许我应该尝试给他机会。。。毕竟他跟我同龄，也曾经很喜欢我 。。。只是我不曾给过他机会。。。最近听说他离婚了。。。朋友觉得他是个好男人， 而且我们有共同的朋友。。。他若敢欺负我，我想信我的那群朋友会为我撑腰。。。只不过我真的很想到国外工作。。。我不可能为了一个男人放弃这样的机会，更何况到国外工作一直是我的心愿、我的理想。。。

 

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男人为什么就是不愿意对感情专一、对他们的妻子或女朋友专一呢？为什么要到处惹花捏草？为什么不愿意忠于爱情、忠于伴侣、忠于他们当初结婚时所立下的誓言？原本已经对男人超 (x3x3x3x3x3x3x3x3) 没信心，现在对他们的信心简直是‘跌至谷底’般。真叫人感叹。:(  男人为什么这么贱呢？？？？？？？？？？？？？

 



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要维系一段感情,，除了彼此深爱对方之外,，互相坦诚也是不可或缺的。


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People who enhance and energize our lives - our soul mates - are treasures to be cherished and nurtured.

~ Jeffrey Wands (Author of Knock and the Door will Open)

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