Authority

I despise people who abuse their authority, especially those who get their positions of authority through nepotism. I despise people who make use of their positions of authority to promote those who don't deserve to get promoted but nonetheless get promoted, because of their (sexually?) intimate relationship with the latter. Judgement is in store for the former. I am certain of that.

 

Dare to Dream

那种眼神的交流, 似乎意味着彼此对彼此有同样的感觉。:)

Dare to Dream 

My Thoughts

Men generally are such scary creatures! They could be having flings or one-night stands with men and/or women although they are either married or attached. Some (or maybe many) could be legally married in another country rather than in their country of origin and so it might not be possible to really know for sure if they are married. Many of them (I believe) could be having flings or one-night stands overseas and many (I believe) have mistresses overseas. That is at least true in the case of Singaporean men. It's so scary, isn't it?! Why can't men just be contented with having a wife or a girlfriend? Is it because of their ego? Or is it because they are wired that way? Don't they have any conscience at all???!!!

 



Dare to Dream

Integrity

I pride myself on the fact that I am a person of integrity and so I feel very offended when someone questions my integrity (directly or indirectly). Yesterday afternoon, a colleague actually chose to trust what a client had said rather than trust what I had said, though I had told her repeatedly that it wasn't me...in the end, I was proven right. In my workplace, I am one of the few who have integrity (I am not boasting here) and so it was even more offensive that she chose not to believe my words.

Dare to Dream

What right do you have to question what I do when you are not even my boss? Why can't you just ask me directly though you have no right to question me? Why must you go to my boss? Please remember that you got promoted not because of your own capabilities but because of your unusual relationship with our big boss!

Dare to Dream

Death Test

Check out an article on 'Death Test' at http://metro.co.uk/2013/08/11/scientists-invent-death-test-that-will-test-us-how-long-we-have-to-live-3919159/?ITO=facebook

 



Dare to Dream

我看不惯那些说不过我就讲我喜欢争论的人。我是个和平主义者, 而并非他们所讲的那样。

Dare to Dream 敢于梦想

True Love

When I think of the definition of true love, I remember a guy whom I knew many years ago. He actually wanted to give me the capital to do business, and the amazing thing was that he didn't expect me to accept him as a condition. (If I had no problem trusting men then, I would probably have accepted him.) If something is important to you, a guy who truly loves you and is in a position to give you that will definitely go about doing that for you immediately. Likewise, if a guy truly loves you, he will never allow anyone to bully you. In other words, true love requires corresponding actions. 

Dare to Dream

Food for Thought

An educated man is one who has so developed the faculties of his mind that he may acquire anything he wants...without violating the rights of others.

~ Napoleon Hill (Author of Think and Grow Rich)



Dare to Dream

我的看法

正所谓做得正、站得稳，所以有必要这么怕恶势力吗？为什么有蛮多同事这么怕得罪我的老板？虽然她有人在背后撑腰，但毕竟她是走后门进来当老板的，而并非凭她自己的本事。所以，为什么要怕她呢？ 对，她是真的很可怕；但是只要你问心无愧，就没有必要怕她啊。

Dare to Dream 敢于梦想

Instrumental Piece - Untitled

While trying to make the music for 你就是我的幸福 sound better, I felt stuck. So I tried to change my usual music style and BANG, it brought about an instrumental piece. I like it! :)  Personally, I think it possesses a magical power to soothe a tired soul, and I believe that it could heal a broken heart too. I guess the music that I have been trying to compose for 你就是我的幸福 will be perfected when I finally meet The One. :O 

 

Dare to Dream

My Thoughts

This afternoon, someone asked me if my big boss is a gay. It brought to my mind a true story about a woman who found out that her husband was a gay after they were married. It also brought to my mind another story about a local DJ who is a gay but yet has a girlfriend, apparently because of his family. To me, it's alright to be a gay but it's definitely NOT right for a gay to get a girlfriend or a wife for the sake of his family. It's not fair to the poor woman! Moreover, that is TOTALLY unethical!

Dare to Dream

Respect



Respect is not a given; it has to be earned. This should apply to all kinds of relationships, including parent-child relationship, boss-subordinate relationship, etc.

Dare to Dream

Food for Thought

Every failure brings with it the seed of an equivalent success.

~ Napoleon Hill (Author of Think and Grow Rich)



Dare to Dream

Food for Thought



Success requires no apologies, failure permits no alibis.

~ Napoleon Hill (Author of Think and Grow Rich)

 

Dare to Dream

My Thoughts

Recently, my immediate boss told me that my ex-supervisor had sent her an email pertaining a common client. I am SURE she knew that it was my client but yet instead of emailing me directly, she had chosen to go through my immediate boss. It showed her lack of professionalism and her inability to avoid bringing her personal prejudice to bear on our 'working relationship'. (I am using inverted commas here because there was no working relationship between us even though there should be in view of the fact that we had a common client.) Incidentally, she was the one who had sinned against me MANY times, not the other way round. So all the more she shouldn't allow her personal prejudice to interfere with our 'working relationship'. She should leave the social work field for good, instead of being a black sheep and a disgrace to the social work profession. I could have gone to her immediate boss regarding this matter but I didn't. Why would I want to stoop to her level?!

Dare to Dream