你为了你的‘小白脸’做了超多的。。。例如，你显然的为了他而提升了他部门所有的人, 因而让资深的同事享有28天的年假。。。你也显然的为了他而给他异常的加薪（听说是12%）、提升他两次。。。你甚至为了他多凭请了三个同事。。。（你可以为了他做了这些违背良心的事。。。你应该知道你这样做就等于滥用公款以及滥用捐款。。。）你也为了他而给他很多学习的机会以及表现自己的机会。。。你更为了他而让他参与各项大小型活动的策划。。。还有，你蛮常接他上班、送他回家。甚至于送他和他母亲去医院复诊之类的。。。反之，你却完全没为我做什么。。。甚至于每当我上司欺压我的时候，你只会躲避，完全没替我出气。。。或许你会以为我是在吃醋。。。但是我没有哦。。。我只是在提醒我自己，你这个人根本就完全不值得让我托付终身。。。更何况你又是一个感情泛滥的情场高手。。。

 

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Solitude

I will be spending the next three days on decluttering and in solitude. Hopefully, much decluttering work will be done during this period. And hopefully, much will be gained from this period of solitude too. 

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My Thoughts

If I can tell that someone whom I have met for the first time is 'dangerous', obviously I can also tell who are not my real friends and who are those who befriend me with ulterior motives. I may not say it but it does not mean that I do not know. I may not look smart but it certainly does not mean that I can be easily deceived. 

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Telltale Signs of Deceit

It's actually not that difficult to tell when a person is not being truthful (sincere). The obvious sign is when he (she) blinks his (her) eyes involuntarily when he (she) talks to you (unless he's (she's) already an expert in deception and he (she) can lie through his (her) teeth). When he (she) talks to you without facing you but instead facing another direction, that's another sign that he's (she's) not being truthful (sincere), unless you know that he's (she's) shy. And another sign that he's (she's) not being truthful (sincere) is when he (she) turns his (her) head to the right when he's (she's) talking to you. 

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Arrogance vs Humility

I am very amazed when people with no training and no experience in a particular field question the knowledge of someone who is very experienced in that field, and with such audacity! These people are so arrogant! They need to learn humility.

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《爱情》

莫文蔚的这首歌道出了我近日的心声。。。

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My Thoughts

In the context of my workplace, I think it's terribly unwise to employ a counsellor who's not effectively bilingual. There'll be times when she's required to provide counselling to Mandarin-speaking clients. And if family members or relatives are not available to do the translation for her, her colleagues will have to help. Man-hours are put to waste as a result. And if two people are employed to do the same amount of work that was previously done by one person or if more people are employed to do less amount of work, it's not only a waste of manpower, it's also a waste of financial resources. All these should not have happened, especially when it's a charity that relies on government funding and donations (from companies and individuals). I'm very amazed that the management of a charity that had its IPC revoked in the past does not seem to have learnt its lesson. 

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Karate

I think girls should learn karate (or other martial arts) from young to protect themselves from serial rapists, etc, especially in places and countries where there is a high incidence of crimes (including rape) against girls and women. Check out a video on how a girl protected herself from a man on Youtube: http://thisisham.com/man-tries-to-abduct-little-girl-with-black-belt-and-did-not-see-this-coming/

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追求梦想

刚才在网上看了最新一集的《球在你脚下》。开场有一句话, 大概是说一个人可以忙着追求自己的梦想, 但是千万不要因为忙而忘了追求自己的梦想。我举双手赞成。:)

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Difference Between a 'Goat' and a 'Sheep'

There is a key diiference between a 'goat' and a 'sheep'. A 'goat' has the appearance but has no real substance whereas a 'sheep' has both the appearance and real substance. That is why a 'goat' will end up in hell wheareas a 'sheep' will go to heaven.

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Some people simply enjoy bullying others and yet are thick-skinned enough to pretend to be fair in front of their bosses. They are such despicable hypocrites! They are probably thinking that they will continue to be spared from judgment/punishment just because they have been spared all these years. There is a season for everything and their season for judgment/punishment is probably near at hand.

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