Monday, April 29, 2013

Fuming

A new colleague is really getting on my nerves. Her sheer arrogance and apparent superiority complex really put me off! She is so new to this field but yet is so unwilling to learn. (Why ask for my views if she is so unreceptive? She ought to learn the hard way!) I am not obligated to teach her what I know and so she ought to be thankful that I am willing to share with her what I know. I could have sabotaged her by deliberately giving her wrong information, etc, etc. But I didn't and I won't (because my conscience is still intact) and so she ought to be thankful that she has met me and not someone who is evil and who intends to do her in! She's just TOTALLY unfit to be working in this field. (She should go back to her old field and be a blessing, rather than staying put where she is a misfit and be a curse.) Damn it!

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Sunday, April 28, 2013

我认为那些在事业中途转换跑道成为社工的人很会玩办公室政治。。。这些人让我觉得好可怕。。。

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Workplace Bullies

With reference to my earlier posts, I must say that I am not against foreigners and foreigners working in Singapore per se, because I do have friends who are foreigners.

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Workplace Bullies

If the writer I mentioned in the earlier post were to work in a non-profit organisation, he would probably be very disheartened because the bullying he might encounter in such an organisation could be many times worse than what he had experienced at his recent workplace. So, if you are aspiring to become social workers or if you are hoping to work in a non-profit organisation, please do not have the expectation that you will be working alongside angelic social workers or colleagues (non-social work colleagues).

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Saturday, April 27, 2013

Workplace Bullies

I just read an article in www.therealsingapore.com. The writer talked about workplace bullies who are FTs. I can relate to how he feels about the bullying, because I am often bullied at work. :(  Specifically, he mentioned about how his foreign superiors had bullied him. At least he could take comfort in the fact that the foreigners who had bullied him were his superiors, not colleagues or subordinates. I am not being sarcastic, because I have ever been bullied by foreigners who are not even my superiors. (This is a 'sick' world with a lot of 'sick' people.)

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I can't stand it when a useless and 'sick' man sends PIs to check on me. He has absolutely no right to do that!!!!!!!!!!

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Friday, April 26, 2013

为什么越会玩办公室政治的人似乎越受欢迎呢?????

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我无法容忍那些侵犯我隐私的人。

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Some people are just not teachable.

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Tuesday, April 23, 2013

Friendship

如果我得在友情和爱情之间做选择,我一定选择友情,除非男的真的值得我付出。

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我真搞不懂为什么会有男人愿意娶一个邪恶的女人为妻?如果那个女的美如天仙般,我或许可以理解。但是那个女的长相只是一般罢了,为什么那个男的还是愿意娶她呢?
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上海之旅~ 浙江乌镇(4)




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上海之旅 ~ 浙江乌镇 (3)







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上海之旅 ~ 浙江乌镇(2)









The local tour guides apparently only speak Mandarin and so for those who cannot understand Mandarin, it's better to go with friends who can help with translation.


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Monday, April 22, 2013

第一次被人误解却是松了一口气。。。平常被人误解时除了心里觉得很委屈之外,还有一肚子的气。。。但这次被误解却让我松了一口气。。。

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Food for Thought

Just now I saw a banner at Singapore Sports School and it read: Learned champions with character. Well said...what is the point of becoming champions if we have to 'sacrifice' our character in the process?

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Sunday, April 21, 2013

缘分


有时候,似乎有缘的人却并非真的有缘,而似乎没缘的人也未必真的没缘。所以,缘分是很奇妙的。

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上海之旅

这次到上海,发现当地人似乎很喜欢喝汤。不管是小吃店或餐馆,它们的汤都是超大碗的。像这么大碗的汤应该可以分三个人喝吧。


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上海之旅 ~ Huangpu River Cruise (2)











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上海之旅 ~ Huangpu River Cruise(1)








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